Inez To potty train or not to potty train? THAT is the question. A tricky question, but a question nonetheless.
With plenty of advice out there, it can be very difficult to answer. So, believe you me, you are definitely not alone in feeling overwhelmed or confused by this question. From anxiety around making the right decision to confusion about the details, this process can seem very daunting – but, the truth is, it doesn’t have to be.
While there is no magic age for potty training, most experts do agree that starting too early can be just as unhelpful as starting too late. There also seems to be a general consensus, amongst experts and parents, about the typical age range in which toddlers tend to be more successful at potty training. There is no single or simple answer to this question. However, this article will provide you with guidance to help you feel confident in determining when YOUR toddler is ready to take this big step, so you can give your child the best start needed to succeed in this milestone.
Average Age for Potty Training
It is typically stated that starting to potty train your toddler between ages 18 months old and 3 years old is ideal. I concur. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, the average age for beginning potty training in the United States is usually between 2 and 3 years old. But, let’s be clear, I am particularly referring to the beginning stage of potty training, not the completion. As a mother myself, I believe, wholeheartedly, that children develop at their own pace so it wouldn’t be fair for anyone to set a deadline or unattainable expectation on any child.
Factors to Consider Before Potty Training
So, we’ve discussed the ideal age, which is a major factor to consider before potty training. However, it’s not the only factor. Your toddler’s physical readiness and emotional readiness are equally as important.
Physical Readiness:
You should determine if your child can stay dry for up to 2 hours at a time, during the day. Also, whether or not your child can signal when they need to potty by words, squatting, freezing, and/or grunting, or even if your toddler recognizes when he/she is wet or soiled. Plus, it is also essential that your toddler has the ability to undress and walk to and from the bathroom independently.
Emotional Readiness:
Your child must be able to communicate basic needs, understand and follow simple instructions, and have a general understanding of the concept. Also, you should consider if your child takes off or shows any discomfort in a wet diaper. And, whether or not your toddler shows interest in using a toilet/potty or wearing “big kid” panties/underwear.
Strategies for Progression
Potty training is a process. So, it’s important to be patient and encourage progression.
– Set a schedule and stick with it.
– Put loose clothing on your child that is easy to pull up and down.
– Create a distraction-free environment, so your child can focus on the task at hand.
– Redirect their attention back to the potty, if they start to get distracted by something else.
– Encourage your toddler to wipe, flush, and wash their hands in a fun manner.
– Offer positive reinforcement when your child takes steps in the right direction (however that may look for you and your family). Some suggestions may be using a sticker chart, singing a particular song, or performing a particular dance after each successful moment.
In Conclusion
When it comes to potty training – the right age to start is the age that feels right for you and your child. No one else can determine the best age for you. Make potty training something your toddler looks forward to. It is not meant to be a punishment, so avoid any type of criticism or negativity when they make a mistake. Accidents will happen! So, your energy is better utilized celebrating successes, no matter how small they may be. By implementing the strategies outlined above and setting realistic expectations, your toddler will be a potty-training pro in no time! No worries!
